You will notice in my blogroll that I only have one site listed, Violent Acres.
I don’t always agree with what she has to say, but I still read her blog. I love that she is honest and willing to speak her mind. I love that she doesn’t care what anyone thinks of her. As I grow I hope to become half the writer she is. If I had skin a fraction of the thickness of hers I would consider myself a better person.
I love this post about feminism ruining her sex-life. While I am not sure that I agree with her on the rape fantasy aspect of the post, I do agree with her on the domination overtones.
I may be a stay home mom but I have an equal partnership with my husband. Being a stay home mom does not make me inferior to my husband. That being said, it is nice to have a partner who can be aggressive in the bedroom. I don’t want him to be over-aggressive, so aggressive that once he orgasms I am forgotten. I love the roughness, the sweat, the bodies slapping, the labored breathing. As much as I love all of the above, how much fun would it be without the orgasms?
On the same note, sometimes I want to be in charge. Maybe I want to be the aggressor. I love that my husband is okay with that. Sometimes I just want him to lay back and enjoy while I set the pace.
Other times sex is just sex. It can be just about the orgasms. It doesn’t have to be about who is in charge, who is on top, or who finishes first. As long as we both orgasm does it really matter?
